Holding hands ... in the dance 'Come dance with me'

[whatever next!!]. I HAVE seen some dances where for no apparent reason they all join hands... reminds me of the C&W dances... everything nicey nicey pretty pretty then the guys go outside to have a REAL gunfight... and the 'girls' start pulling each others hair... (all rather two faced) sorry... a DEFO turn off for me.
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